~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack 6-11: The True Nature of Attraction & Relationship ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Last night Yemiah and I dropped by "Casa de Luz" for dinner and fellowship with Bob Stevens and John Schmidt. Because of the level of clarity and alignment of everyone at our little table, the energy and bandwidth was intense. During the evening this "bandwidth" drew me into contact with five women I've expressed attractions with over the past few years. Many different expressions. All intense. Outcome for Yemiah and I was a conversation this morning in which we clarified our relationship agreements to more fully embody each of our True Natures. Our own True Selves. Yesterday this article might have been theoretical. Today it's first person personal. The background material is a bit long and scan it once before you play with the included Hacks, then read over it again and consider some of the advanced resources. These Hacks run the multi-dimensional gambit of physical, emotional and psycho-spiritual. Go easy and if possible locate a collection of highly conscious people who've "got game" and can "Hack" with you in a playful and High manner. (My apologies for typos and broken context as I only have time today to write this, rather than proof it.) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Administrivia ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ join@RadicalHealth.com (articles) austin@RadicalHealth.com (Austin, Texas events) leave@RadicalHealth.com (unsubscribe) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ True Nature And The True Nature Of Attraction ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Each consciousness has it's own True Nature and it's own True Will. True Nature embodies characteristics of both Karma and Dharma. The Karmic nature of attraction relates to surfacing memories and healing them. The Dharmic nature of attraction relates to two bodies with affinity coming together to absorb and integrate their differences so both can transmute to a more complex, higher life form. True Will relates to the way we choose to express and explore our Karmic/Dharmic charges of attraction. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Simple, Everyday Examples ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Consider water. If you mix water with more water, you just get more water. Dump cold water in to boiling Sulfuric Acid and you get heat, light and an explosion which will rock your world. I've seen the aftermath of this particular experiment and recommend you choose another. :-) Afterwords all is quiet. Consider magnets. Put the two opposite North and South poles together and you get intense attraction. The closer they come, the stronger the attraction and the faster they come together (innuendo consciously chosen). Leave these poles together long enough and they short out. No heat, light and explosion like mixing cold water with hot acid, just a slow discharge of affinity over time. Afterwords all is quiet. The challenge with quietness is we're hardwired for evolution so part all our True Natures is to unite with other energies which can transmute us. These two examples embody the context of most relationship and give clues how to keep relationship alive and spicy over long periods of time. All energy seeks to join with other energy where there is affinity or difference. Water and Acid. We call this Yoga - the tendency for two disparate energies to gravitate toward each other for the purpose of joining, sharing their unique intelligences and transmuting themselves through their exchange into more complex, higher life forms. Our procreative biology makes intimate relationship one of the most tangible expressions of our evolutionary drive as we get to directly experience attraction, explosive connection, then transmute as we quiesce (slow and quiet) and take on completely new characteristics. Having children any buying houses together creates more sustained connections which allow more Karmic healing, thus let through more Dharmic expression... eventually... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Karma, Dharma And The Amazing Relationship Roadshow ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ With Karmic connections our transmutation involves healing and with Dharmic connections morphing ourselves into a new and higher, more complex expression of our True Self. This is why Conscious Languaging and Imagination Activation shines in relationship, as both these technologies greatly expand communication bandwidth. Less is said. More truth is exchanged. Time collapses into present and in changing a single word the very air, light, sound in a room can change instantaneously. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hacking Attraction ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I could talk on this subject for hours and I this article must be finished in a few minutes, so I can make a Thai market run for Young Coconuts. Rather than me ramble, onto our hacks. Caveat: Care should be given when Hacking your attractions because your quality of attracting others and being attracted to others can greatly intensify. As such, you're best served to play in this terrain, with people who have maps (they've explored this terrain before and made it out alive) and are highly conscious. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack #6: Physiological Truth ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Physiological Truth is Truth for which there is only clarity and no story. Examples are: - My stomach hurts. - My face just got hot. - These golden flax, corn, spinach, mole (Chocolate) enchiladas Yemiah made taste fantastic. In other words, sensory experience described in first person, personal terms. The first line of attraction, which will call Yoga from now on to describe ecstatic relationship union, is Physiological Truth. This takes two primary forms - body proportion and pheromones. Yoga begins with visual queues based on body proportion. This means we attract people who are "on tract", aligned with or have affinity with our current body proportions. Next are pheromones which are smell transmissions which are a holographic projection of the state of our immune systems. Hack yourself a new relationship by upgrading your health. Eating more SuperFoods rapidly balances weight and upgrades immune system quality, giving off higher vibration pheromones. Further/Advanced study: Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray http://RadicalHealth.com/books/fisher/love The Selfish Gene http://RadicalHealth.com/books/dawkins/gene ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack #7: Perfume Confusion ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ One of the greatest sources of attraction confusion are perfumes. Our first line of body intuition runs of pheromones. We receive and translate pheromonal messages as a fast assessment of how a person is choosing to express their spirit in physical reality. Hack yourself on your next date or better yet every time you go out by by bathing in pure water and using pure soap or better high vibration Himalayan Salt. Then take a brisk walk around the block or do a few push-ups to perspire a bit. And whenever your attracted to people make sure you can really "smell them" instead of some chemical which may be designed to fool your pheromone receptors into a highly Karmic situation. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack #8: Mistrust The Buzz ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ If you've every taken a strong, isolate (other than whole food) chemical which created a fast, dramatic shift in consciousness or physiology (heart rate, temperature, vomiting) you know what buzz means. Whenever you "feel the buzz" with someone, especially if you can "feel them" before they enter the room, treat your buzz as highly suspect. Just like amphetamines and synthetic caffeine can give an intense, short pleasurable physical shift, Karmic relationship can give the same. Here's how to quickly determine how much Karmic component is present in any given attraction. Hack yourself by asking, "What specific characteristic of this person turns my on?" At the risk of embarrassment I'll give a concrete example. Many years past I found myself constantly being attracted to psychotic actors and dancers. After one to many psychotic episodes with my latest partner I realized what turned me on about her and similar partners before was: "What turns me on most about her is the cadence and richness of her laugh. The way her eyes flash. How she seems to float through the room, than walk with feet to ground. And her commanding presence." As I embodied and expressed each of these characteristics myself, my attractions for people who were showing up to "teach me" these skills vanished. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack #9: Charisma 101 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Once a person passes the physiological truth tests of body proportion and pheromone quality, next comes Charisma. Charisma is all about electricity, in physical terms. We register a Charismatic response with people as they come near us. Just like with the magnets above, two people in close proximity create a highly distinctive interference pattern. The space where their energy fields overlap forms a zone of "energetic foreplay" giving an opportunity, to degree of awareness, of the quality of further intimacy. Hack yourself by opening up your fluid passages to the max, restructuring your neurology to thrive/carry with massive electrical flow, then flood your body with minerals of a specific form to allow flowing big electricity. My recipe for this is Cacao and Vitalize for maximizing fluid passage flow rate. DHA, Crystal Manna, Hemp, Pine Nuts and Avocados as upgrades to... my insulation so electricity flows without shorting out. Himalayan Salt and mucho water as electrical carriers. Then High Speech/Conscious Languaging, Presence and crystal clear Intention to bring through the high voltage, electrical current of Spirit/Creation. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack #10: Suns & Moons, Stars & Satellites ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ There are two primary types of stellar bodies which are a great analogy for consciousness. There are those which create their own heat and light (Suns/Stars) and those which absorb and revolve around Suns/Stars. These are Moons/Satellites. Hack yourself by either becoming a Star or intensifying your seller qualities. This is a major advanced fun project which is sometimes referred to as the Great Work. Further/Advanced Study: The Celestine Prophecy (8th Insight) http://RadicalHealth.com/books/redfield/celestine AngelTech http://RadicalHealth.com/books/antero/angeltech The Human Biological Machine As A Transformational Apparatus http://RadicalHealth.com/books/gold/human Undoing Yourself With Energized Meditation & Other Devices http://RadicalHealth.com/books/hyatt/em Ultra Advanced Study (check your Reality Tunnels at the door): White Tigress http://RadicalHealth.com/books/hsilai/dragon Jade Dragon http://RadicalHealth.com/books/hsilai/tigress ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hack 11: Maximize Your Presence & Intuition ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Over the past 30+ years of consciousness exploration I've noticed to interesting commonalities with people. 1) When a person is Present, they intuit/know exactly what their next best step is to create their chosen outcome. 2) People tend to suppress Presence & Intuition as a survival mechanism as the explosive release of heat and light involved in self healing can many time exceed the person's physiological reserves threatening physical/emotional health or survival. Hack yourself by doing work in all for dimensions - physical, emotional, mental, spiritual - in the order of most third dimensional to most etheric. Before spending your life savings on therapy or attending Narcotics Anonymous three times/day (or alternatives such as the network show "Starved") flood your body with SuperFoods and master Conscious Languaging and Imagination Activation. These two activities may resolve all your healing projects in a fraction of time and expense as other options. And you may find your results/outcomes are continuous. ~~~~~~~~~~~ Wrapping Up ~~~~~~~~~~~ My time is complete and I have to run pick up Young Coconuts. Pass along your outcomes of experiments, as I'm learning too! Enjoy your best day ever! - David Favor ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Raw SuperFood Resources ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Articles/Recipes : http://RadicalHealth.com Exotic SuperFoods: http://RadicalHealth.com/order -- Extreme Mood, Beauty & Youthing, The Easy Way join@RadicalHealth.com - http://RadicalHealth.com This article is for entertainment purposes only. No medical advice is intended or implied. Consult your health practitioner before changing your health practices. Copyright (c) 2005 by David Favor You may reprint all or part of this content so long as credit is given the author(s).